Sunday, December 11, 2005

My Baby's Got A Secret

Ruggy is starting his own blog!

He informs me that there are no posts yet but he has linked some of his interests. He also wants to like analyse "issues" in his life that he cant talk about. It did come as shock to me, especially considering how he initially felt blogging was like setting up a shrine so others can pay homage to the greatness that is yourself. Poor misguided baby, my blog IS my temple...

Will I visit his blog? No, not yet anyways! The boy deserves some privacy. Blog privacy is such a paradox. I do release some of my darkest secrets out into cyberspace. Stuff I couldn't tell my best friends, my family or even Ruggy. It does feel like going on an american talk show. Not good ol wholesome Oprah with her feed the poor book club & bubble bath foundation for teachers. But rather like Ricki Lake and her line up of cross-dressing whales & pre-puberty nymphos....

During my grandfather's funeral about 4 months back, I casually told my sister & some cousins about some of the cool blogs I read during work. The blank stares & uncomfortable silence all around was more than enough to tell me that most of them are bloggers too.

I did not hunt down their blogs in secret. I was a lil worried about coming across disturbing stuff. Like a blog that describes "a oh so gay but in denial brother who leaves a trash trail where ever he goes, whiles having the cutest bf". We are at the age where distance is better measured in Mbps, and communication is simplisically complex. Its not what you know, but how to find it!

The next issue is, finding info is one thing, dealing with it is another. The burden of the truth isnt always pretty. Would you send a private investigator to check if your husband is cheating on you? Like what would you do if your found your parents porn collection? Or should you bribe police to get out of a hassle, knowing very well that you are encouraging those bastards. Or even that KFC Whipped Potato Gravy is made with the same oil used to fry the chicken, only with added over fried bits... As disturbing as it may or may not be, I'm not sure if don't want to know...


I want to be the one to know you
I want to be the one to stay
I want to be the one to show you the way,
Yeah.. yeah
Barstools & Cigarettes ~ Locked
The soulful song's from Arroclint's Blog~

14 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's funny how blogs are both private and public at the same time. The fact that a good number of people reading my blog actually do know me makes me think if I should actually write the things I do sometimes. But honestly, I don't really mind as it allows them another channel to understand me better. It may even save a whole lot of explaining :P

I'm more worried about the morality police banging on my door, really. Them, and your sister :P

8:55 PM  
Blogger AJ said...

Lol weeshiong... My sister?

Does it bother you that I know we went to the same high school?

Would it bother you to know I actually was peeking into one of your body jam classes?

Lol weeshiong.. Lol..

10:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Not knowing thing is a great way to get by (^_^)V But then I am sure every single one of us wants to know all even if it's to open Pandora's box.

You didn't tell them you whip your thing out and stroke while you look at some hotties on some blogs, did you? :-)

Have a happy weekend, AJ!

10:56 PM  
Blogger Kenji said...

Lol although blogs may be a sacred shrine for us to let loose our secrets... It alwyas have a tendency of being found out by friends or worse! ;)

11:35 PM  
Blogger AJ said...

Only you shigeki... only you...

chris, friends are alright but family would be horrible...

12:03 AM  
Blogger Dildos said...

yes it will bother me.

and yes, i will bribe the cop if it means getting away clean.... so ashame!!!!

family and bf are off limits... and colleagues too.

12:29 AM  
Blogger mikey said...

They say ignorance is a bliss, but I don't fully agree on that. I want my parents, and those whom I'm closed with, to know who I am, in general. But I don't want them to peek into my private life, for example, sex life.

As for the policemen...OK, maybe a blowjob or two is not much of a hassle anyway, no?

1:13 AM  
Blogger AJ said...

wjee & mikey~ The thing is, even if it does or does not bother you, there is nothing stoping them from accidentally finding your blog. Its like an online diary!

ben~ I'm very very sure they know cos they spend even more time on the net than me! They all have jobs that allow them to blatantly misuse the internet in the office..

10:23 AM  
Blogger Arroclint said...

that was one mighty readable post mate...

reached the lyrics and thought they sounded familiar... much appriciated for puttin up the link...

8:10 PM  
Blogger savante said...

OOh. But you will tell us where ruggy keeps his secrets right?

paul

9:21 PM  
Blogger AJ said...

arroclint~ ur most welcomed, especially after that vid of your friends.. lol!

paul~ I don't think I will be doing that... ever.. lol

9:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

LOL. It doesn't bother me actually, see I already knew that :)

11:14 PM  
Blogger jayandkay said...

Do I know you AJ?? :o

11:21 PM  
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